A weekly newsletter offering affair recovery help through articles, podcasts, downloads, and recommended resources. Presented by Tim Tedder, an affair recovery counselor for over 20 years.
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Affair Healing
A weekly newsletter offering affair recovery help through articles, podcasts, downloads, and recommended resources. Presented by Tim Tedder, an affair recovery counselor for over 20 years.
March 4 2026 "The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." —George Bernard Shaw Good Communication is a Learnable Skill There’s a certain kind of silence that settles into a relationship when both people believe they’ve already said what needed to be said. He thinks, I told you I was sorry. She thinks, You never really talked to me about it. He believes the conversation is over because words were spoken. She knows it hasn’t even started.Most couples...
February 25, 2026 "When you blame others, you give up your power to change." —Robert Anthony When Blame Feels Justified In 2018, Starbucks faced a major public backlash after two Black men were arrested while waiting in a Philadelphia store. The arrests were captured on video and went viral. Public anger was justified. There were calls for boycotts. The situation clearly reflected a systemic failure.The CEO at the time, Kevin Johnson, could have blamed the individual employee, the police...
February 18, 2026 Do you have a recommendation, story, or question to submit? I'd love to hear from you! "In my eyes, I’m a winner because I was able to persevere right through." —Chloe Kim, Olympic silver winner When We Miss the Prize I remember, during my sophomore year of college, envisioning my future. I had it all mapped out: the man I would become, the marriage I would build, the kind of father I would be, a meaningful career—a life that felt steady, honorable, and whole. That dream...