May 29, 2026

I'm considering some significant changes to Affair Healing, and your opinion would be extremely helpful. Read on for more information.

I didn't send out last week's message because I was in the middle of selling my house and moving. Every time I've done this, I say "never again...," but we all know how that goes.

"Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next."

—Gilda Radner

Narrowing My Focus

After 15 years, I'm making deliberate choices about what this work will look like going forward.
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Since the launch of Affair Healing in 2009, the resources and services it offers have grown and evolved. Now, instead of thinking about expanding, I'm focused on narrowing—putting my energy where it matters most.
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That's where you come in.
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I've put together a 1-minute survey to help me understand what you value. I hope you'll take a minute to complete it.
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Specifically, I'm deciding how much time to continue putting into each of these resources and services: podcasts, posts & articles, online courses, private coaching, and this newsletter. This past year has been something of a test, as I relaunched both the podcast and newsletter. The results have been revealing, and I'll share more in a follow-up message. But I want your input first.
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Your feedback genuinely helps shape what comes next.
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Episode #59: The Broken Marriage, Her Exit Affair​
I talk with Joni Woods about surviving an abusive marriage and the exit affair she had on her way out. This episode offers a perspective on the complicated intersection of survival, betrayal, and personal responsibility.
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​5-Minute Bonus Audio: Part of the conversation that didn't make it into the podcast episode is available in the post titled "Pressured to Stay in a Broken Marriage."

Episode #58: Men's Groups​
​Men’s coach Jason Lange joins me to explore how emotional suppression, cultural masculinity, and a lack of connection skills drive relationship breakdown—and how men's groups offer a path to awareness, accountability, and genuine intimacy.