more from my ex, my kids

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

May 6, 2026

It's a ridiculously busy week for me. You, too?

But I want to send this quick note to let you know that two new podcast episodes have been released in the past week: the second Conversation with My Ex episode (where Konnie and I talk about her finding out about my affair and the aftermath of that disclosure) and The Children's Experience, in which two of our children (our oldest son and youngest daughter) talk about what they recall about those first years of the broken family.

The final episode of Conversation with My Ex will be released next week. Konnie and the children talk about the ups and downs of life since the divorce, especially our efforts to heal and be a good family together.

Episode #55: A Conversation with My Ex: D-day & the Aftermath

My ex-wife, Konnie, and I talk honestly about the day the full truth came out and the painful months that followed before they separated.

Episode #56: The Children's Experience of My Affair and Our Divorce

Two adult children share their perspective on growing up through a parent’s affair, divorce, and the family life that followed.

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