Nov 13, 2025 If you’ve listened to our podcasts or audio posts, you already know that some of the most meaningful moments come from real people sharing their stories and questions. We’d love to hear from you. Whether you have a comment, a question, or a brief reflection on your own experience (90 seconds or less), your voice matters. We may include recorded messages in future resources, and you’re welcome to remain anonymous if you prefer. Just slip into a quiet spot and tell us what’s on...
9 days ago • 1 min read
Nov 5, 2025 Not long ago, I recommended a new book written specifically to Christians who have been betrayed and abandoned by their spouses. The book is now available in paperback. Check it out here: Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce, by Linda MacDonald. "When I first came here, I was happy. I didn't feel guilty. Now I feel more like—did I make a mistake?" —"Kevin" Several years ago, I was coaching a man (we'll call him Kevin) who chose to leave his wife and children to begin a new life with...
17 days ago • 1 min read
October 29, 2025 I've moved this week's quotes to the bottom of the newsletter since there are a few of them... recent podcast reviews from Spotify and Apple Podcasts. A Creative Spark in The Recovery Room For over 40 years, I’ve felt that part of my life’s purpose is to “creatively communicate a message of healing and hope.” That creativity has shown up in many forms—speaking, writing, singing, storytelling, acting, even graphic design. I’ve always been looking for new ways to weave art and...
24 days ago • 2 min read
October 22, 2025 "In the past, I would’ve said once a cheater always a cheater, but I know differently because of this podcast." -in an email received this week Once A Cheater, Never Again I love the message of grace and hope, and the knowledge that our worst failures don't have to define us for the rest of our lives. In fact, those failures can become the catalyst for our most profound change, despite what the "Leave a Cheater" crowd might say. That's why I'm so excited about being able to...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
OCT 15, 2025 "The story isn’t over. What they destroyed doesn’t define you; what you rebuild will." -Linda MacDonald in Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Recently, several of my coaching clients—former unfaithful partners—have told me something encouraging: "Before working with you, I tried other counselors and resources, but this is the first thing that’s really helped me." I can’t tell you how grateful I am to hear that. It reaffirms my new focus with the RENOVATE Project, helping involved...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read